In the Dutch village of Staphorst a so-called vrijvenster is a small window into a girl’s bedroom where a boy as potential suitor can enter through at regulated hours to try and impregnate her.

A traditional Staphorst farmhouse; a vrijvenster would have looked like one of the small top windows, however, as vrijvenster they would have been located on the ground floor for easy access
Literally translated, the word vrijvenster means coupling window or copulation window. These small windows were used as a loophole for pre-marital sex. Strangely enough, with parental consent, as the use of the vrijvenster was a regional tradition.
In most cases it was customary that a girl invited a boy to call upon her. Traditionally, this was done by giving a bag or pillowcase to the boy who the girl wished to come and visit. There have been cases however, where girls lost their pillowcase to a cheeky boy who had pinched the piece of bed linen from their hands and doing so earned the right to have intercourse. These windows also created opportunities for the more forceful boys who simply entered the girl’s bedroom without being invited and forced the girl to have sex.
The boys who were allowed to enter the girl’s bedroom were supposed to see if they could get the girl pregnant. If a girl was easily impregnated, she was considered to be fruitful and a possible candidate for marriage. Sadly, if a girl was not able to become pregnant she was in danger of being publicly humiliated.
This tradition was only common among the orthodox and fundamentalist Christians – usually reformed – in the area of Staphorst, a village which is part of the Dutch bible-belt. Today, the village is still widely known for its highly conservative Christian population. Nowadays however, the tradition is no longer practiced publicly.
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